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21개월 된 아기가 있고 결혼한 지 3년이 되었습니다.
아침에 부엌에서 수박을 자르고 있는데 남편은 거실에서 TV를 보고 아기를 보고 있었어요.
TV를 보며 아기를 돌보고 있었습니다.
수박을 담을 양동이가 필요했는데 저는 키가 작았어요.
저는 식탁의자에서 일어나 옆 선반에서 양동이를 꺼냈어요.
내려오는데 거실에서 놀고 있던 아기가 수박을 발견하고 부엌으로 달려갔어요.
부엌으로 뛰어 들어갔습니다.
도마 위에 칼이 있었는데 손이 닿지 않았어요.
하지만 손이 닿을 수 있는 곳에 있었어요.
남편이 달려와서 아기를 안고 거실로 갔어요.
저는 수박을 썰고 있었어요.
남편이 칼을 아기 손이 닿는 곳에 두지 말라고 했어요.
그래서 갑자기 튀어나올 줄은 몰랐어요. 조심할게요.
제가 "알았어요"라고 했더니 남편이 "알았어요"라고 하더니 다시 생각해보라고 하더군요.
칼을 거기 두지 말라고 하더군요. 화도 나고 짜증도 났어요
칼을 거기 두지 말라고 했어요
그래서 제가 말했죠 제가 부주의해서 그래요 조심하겠다고 했는데
그런데 계속 뭐라고 하길래 듣고 또 들었더니 화를 내면서 TV를 보고 있잖아'라고 하더라고요.
그래서 제가 말했죠 '계속 아기 보고 있지 않았어요?
그럼 아기에게 주의를 기울였어야죠."라고 말했죠.
그러자 아내는 너무 화가 나서 자기 잘못이라며 큰 소리를 치기 시작했어요.
칼을 두고 온 것도 아니고 도마 위에 있었어요.
그래서 뒤돌아서서 선반에서 통조림을 꺼내서
그리고 아이가 달려올까 봐 칼집에 다시 넣었어요.
칼집에 다시 넣었어요 수박을 잘랐어요 칼집에 다시 넣었죠
아이에게 수박을 자르고 싶냐고 물었더니 좋다고 하더군요...
저는 싱크대에 두든 칼집에 넣든 하라고 했어요.
그는 화를 내며 제가 말도 안 되는 소리를 하고 있다고, 제가 자신을 탓하고 있다고 말했습니다. 제가 정말 그렇게 틀렸나요?
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베플ㅇ|2023.05.21 22:38
부부 중 한 명이 다른 한 명의 일을 편하게 하기 위해 아이를 돌보고 있지 않나요? 남편은 뭘 잘하고 있는 걸까요?
베플ㅇ|2023.05.21 23:58
남편이 웃기네요, TV를 보고 있는데 아기가 부엌에 간다는 걸 모르고 다른 사람 탓만 하네요.
베플|2023.05.21 23:54
애를 보고 있는데 애가 부엌에 가는데 당연히 말려야지... 정신머리 어디감.....?
베플0ㅇ|2023.05.22 09:16
저 여자 미쳤어. 세상에는 위험한 곳이 많아요. 가지 말라고 가르쳐야 해요. 칼을 사용하는 것은 일상적인 일이고, 아이에게는 선반 위의 물건뿐만 아니라 병뚜껑조차도 위험한데 그걸 다 안고 살아갈 건가요? 아이를 볼 때 TV를 보거나 쫓아 다니지 말고 어디가 위험한지 묻지 말고 가르칠 생각을하세요.
베플ㅇ|2023.05.22 09:33
그게 화낼 일인가요? 도대체 뭐 때문에 츠니를 보고 감정을 여과 없이 드러내는 거야? 경계 없는 커플처럼 사는 거야?

You have a 21-month-old baby and have been married for 3 years.
In the morning, I was cutting watermelon in the kitchen and my husband was in the living room
watching TV and watching the baby.
I needed a bucket to put the watermelon in, and I'm short.
I got up on my dining chair to get the bucket from the side shelf.
As I was coming down, the baby was playing in the living room and spotted the watermelon and ran into the kitchen.
and ran into the kitchen.
There was a knife on the cutting board and he couldn't reach it.
but it was within reach.
My husband came running and grabbed the baby and went to the living room.
I was finishing slicing the watermelon.
He said something about leaving the knife within reach of the baby.
So I didn't know it was going to come out of nowhere, I'll be careful.
I said, "Okay," and he said, "Okay," and then he said, "On second thought.
she was like, "Don't put the knife there." She was angry and annoyed.
to not leave it there.
So I said, "Okay. It's my carelessness. I said I would be careful.
but she kept saying something, so I listened and listened and listened, and then she got mad and said, "You're watching TV.
and I'm like, "Weren't you watching the baby the whole time?
I said, "Okay, then you should have been paying attention to your baby.
She was so angry that she started ranting and raving, saying it was her fault.
It's not like I left the knife behind, it was on the cutting board.
and I turned around to get a canister off the shelf.
and then I put it back in the sheath in case the kid came running.
I put it back in the sheath. I cut the watermelon. I put it back in the sheath.
I asked him if he wanted to cut the watermelon, and he said yes...
I said, "Leave it in the sink or put it in the sheath.
He gets angry and says that I'm not making any sense and that I'm blaming him. Was I really that wrong?
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베플ㅇ|2023.05.21 22:38
Isn't one of the couple watching the child to make the other one's job easier? What is your husband doing right?
베플ㅇ|2023.05.21 23:58
He's funny, he's watching TV and doesn't realize the baby is going to the kitchen, and he's blaming everyone else.
Beppl|2023.05.21 23:54
I'm watching the kid and the kid goes to the kitchen, of course I have to stop him... 정신머리 어디감.....?
베플0ㅇ|2023.05.22 09:16
She's crazy. There are many dangerous places in the world. You have to teach him that he shouldn't go. Using a knife is a daily occurrence, and for a child, not only the items on the shelf, but even the bottle cap is dangerous, so are you going to live with it all? When you see a child, don't watch TV, chase him around and think about teaching him, not ask him where he is being critical.
베플ㅇ|2023.05.22 09:33
Is that something to be angry about? What the hell are you looking at Tsuni for, filtering your emotions as you see fit? You're living like a couple with no boundaries? Think about how long you'll have to live like that in front of your kids. It may not seem like a big deal, but this guy is a real dick.
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